“Zanzibar is Half-Paradise…”

Terri Wingham is the founder and CEO of A Fresh Chapter, a cancer survivor, and someone who believes that we are not defined by the most difficult aspects of our story.

Written by Terri Wingham | April 14, 2012

With sand between my toes and the sun at my back, I saw him coming and scanned the beach for an escape route. Still feeling raw and emotionally beaten up from the pain and injustice I witnessed in Rwanda, I craved SILENCE. I didn’t feel up for the sales pitch I knew was coming.

“Jambo….Hello…” he called out in a combination of heavily accented English and Swahili, “lady – where you from?”

For a moment, I wondered if I could feign deafness, but instead I called out “Canada” over my shoulder and kept up my steady saunter through the slippery white sand.

A moment later, I could smell him at my side – salt, sand, and sweat blending together into the natural cologne of the tropics.

“They call me Mr. Languages,” he said. His chest puffed up with pride. “I speak a little English, Italiano, Francais, and Swahili. You need anything, I can get it for you.”

I nodded and kept walking.

“What do you need? You need fruit? I can do that. A bicycle so you can ride out to the lagoon? I give you good price lady…”

And so it continued… I smiled (hopefully not patronizingly). No, I didn’t need fruit. Or a bicycle. My beautiful little budget guesthouse on the beach, The Palm Beach Inn, already had fruit, bicycle rentals, and gorgeous sun rises.

He persisted. “Mr. Languages is very busy when the tourists come. So busy – selling fruit, renting bicycles, taking guests on tours of the village.” He paused to look out into the aquamarine sea, “But, now in rainy season – it’s very slow. I take rest because it’s hard to earn money.”

“I’m sure.” I said. As the only guest in the hotel for a few days, I could imagine how hard it must be to earn a living during low season.

“Now – Zanzibar is Half Paradise,” he said with not a trace of bitterness in his voice. “Life is hard for many people, but then tourists come and spend money and it’s Paradise again.”

I thought of his words in the days to come – Half Paradise – even in one of the most beautiful places in the world, so many people struggle to overcome poverty and make a better life for themselves and their families.

One of the reasons I chose to include Zanzibar in this trip is because I think selecting the right destinations for the future Fresh Chapter Foundation international volunteer trips is critical. Yes, I believe cancer survivors will find healing through international service, but I also believe survivors should feel excited about where in the world they get to write their post-cancer stories. I believe that adventure and beauty are important elements to helping survivors feel excited about life again.

While in Zanzibar, I had opportunity to visit African Impact and spend a day on their volunteer projects. It was a privilege to find an organization with sustainable volunteer practices that provides tangible opportunities for local adults to improve their chances at a better life.  To learn more about my day with African Impact and their wonderful programs across Africa, click here to read my guest post about Volunteering in Paradise.

I’ll leave you with a few more pictures of one of my new favourite places on earth:

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Comments (8)
  • BreastCancerSisterhood.com • April 14, 2012

    Terri,
    Tried to email this to you the other day, but for some reason, it wouldn’t go through. I know how easy it is to find yourself in a life-threatening, heap of bad-ass trouble in a foreign country. Don’t know whether I told you about my experience with the Honduran military commandos, but “stuff” sneaks up on you when you least expect it. Yes, girlfriend, you were lucky. I bet you’re going to be so glad to see London!

    We tape the pilot for my talk show this coming Tuesday, so I’ve had little time to read my favorite blogs & Inside Scoops. Forgive me. Even though it’s not a talk show about breast cancer, Dr. Susan Love is my first guest. Talked with her on the phone yesterday. She’s always so funny and delightful. I’m looking forward to seeing her again.

    Press on, dear one. Wish I could spare some change to fill your coffers, but I’m spending way too much to make this thing happen. I knew I would… Yikes! No risk, no reward, but you know that all too well.

    Stay safe.

    XOXOXO,
    Brenda

  • Terri Wingham • April 15, 2012

    Brenda,

    Thank you so much for the note. I did not hear about the Honduran military commandos story – we obviously have MANY stories to share over a glass (or 4) of wine when I come to Texas again. I’m so excited to learn more about your upcoming talk show. You GOOO girl. Can’t wait to hear more and hopefully watch it either online??? or when I get back to North America.

    Don’t you worry about change in the coffers. The rest of the money for the Adventure of Hope will come together soon. I can FEEL it. In the meantime, I am so excited to support you in your endeavours. Risk = Big Rewards.

    Big hugs to you!
    T
    xo

  • Alli • April 14, 2012

    My parents lived on Zanzibar for nearly 15 years. Well before all the Hotels lined the beaches taking away the ambiance. They lived just off the Airport Road, My father taught at Karumi College my mother worked with CUSO (Canadian University Services Overseas) in women’s development, Zanzibar is one of the most beautiful places on the earth with the crystal clear aqua-marine water or Stone Town all the little things you learn about Zanzibar. Going to the market square at night munching on octopus pieces drinking sugar cane water.. Ireally plan to go back hopefully later this year if my health is good. I later shifted to Dar lived there for a time..
    I will definitely be reading more of your adventures in Africa…
    Love Alli

  • Terri Wingham • April 15, 2012

    Alli,
    So nice to hear from you and I loved hearing about your parent’s story. Zanzibar really is one of the most beautiful places I’ve been and I loved my time in the small village of Bwejuu. It felt like I had the beach to myself on my long walks every day. I can’t wait to read about YOUR adventures when you get back there later this year! My adventures in Africa have come to a close (for now), but on Thursday it’s off to Madrid, Peru, then Costa Rica. Every day I’m grateful for this opportunity to live the dream and pave the way for other survivors to volunteer internationally.
    Big hugs and love to you!
    Terri

  • Marie Ennis-O'Connor (@JBBC) • April 15, 2012

    This.just shows what an amazing writer you are Terri! I felt a frisson of fear when you were approached by a stranger, then I smiled at the Mr Languages sobriquet, then felt humbled by the hustling he has to do to make a living, and all while wishing I was in Zanzibar right now! Girl you sure can tell a story!

  • Terri Wingham • April 15, 2012

    Hello Lovely!!
    Thank you so much. I am sitting at my friend’s house in London thinking about our weekend together last month. Wish I could pop over to your country house for a quick cup of tea this afternoon. Can’t wait to plan our next little rendez vous. There has got to be a conference coming up somewhere in the next few months that we can both crash? Big love to you!
    Terri

  • Jan Baird Hasak • April 15, 2012

    That picture of the two boys is my favorite, by far. Their smiles speak volumes to the Paradise they live in. Through you I learn so much more about our world and its needs. Bless you for your efforts and your love. xxx

  • Terri Wingham • April 17, 2012

    Thanks Jan – Yes those two boys were adorable. The picture was immediately post sand-wrestling episode and they loved it when I showed them the image of them in the sun. Huge blessings coming your way! Terri xo

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