Jumping Off The Cliff

Terri Wingham is the founder and CEO of A Fresh Chapter, a cancer survivor, and someone who believes that we are not defined by the most difficult aspects of our story.

Written by Terri Wingham | February 15, 2011

If you have read my most recent post, Stepping Into The Fear, then you know why living for the present has become so important for me.

In keeping with the theme of walking directly into my fears, I have officially resigned from the job that I loved in my pre-cancer world. Although the part of me that craves certainty is incredibly tempted to go back, I know that I need a fresh start in my post cancer life.

Celebrating the end of chemo with my brother.

I am still trying to define my long term vision for the future. But, on a walk in early January, I thought about the three words that I chose for 2011 and how I could actively bring more inspiration, good health, and love into my life. In that moment, I thought of Africa and what an inspiring opportunity it would be to volunteer there. My sagging spirits lifted at the thought of a new adventure and the chance to give back in a meaningful way. Since my diagnosis, the people around me have showered me with a tidal wave of love and support; finally the time has come for me to pay it forward. (more…)

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Comments (15)
  • Lesly Bauer • February 16, 2011

    I feel the same way. I go through life settling. I would love to do what you’re doing. I’ve made a donation that will probably get you about halfway down the runway. Now go live the dream for all of us (but whatever you do, don’t stop writing!).

  • Sunglow • February 16, 2011

    This is certainly NOT intended as a criticism at all – I think its so wonderful that you want to commit to helping a cause you feel passionately about – but I recently heard a report on NPR that statistics are showing that volunteer positions like this can be detrimental to the children you seek to help. Many struggle with abandonment issues which are furthered by the comings and goings of volunteers. The suggestion the stud makes is children are helped more by your fundraising money in order to keep a secure and consistent staff there for the children. Perhaps you might want to search out this article to help you determine if it is your best course of action. Again, I commend you for wanting to assist, and hope this information might help you make decision.

    http://www.wbur.org/npr/130998857/in-s-africas-orphanages-is-doing-good-really-bad

  • Terri Wingham • February 18, 2011

    Thank-you for your comment. I did quite a bit of research before I selected an organization to partner with and one of the reasons that I chose CCS is because of the ways that the seek to make a positive impact in the communities they travel to offer aid too. Please feel free to check out the following links:

    How CCS places volunteers:
    http://www.crossculturalsolutions.org/volunteer-work/placement-process.aspx

    Why should someone consider volunteering abroad?:
    http://www.crossculturalsolutions.org/volunteering-abroad/why-volunteer-abroad.aspx

    A large part of what insures CCS will make a positive impact is their partnership with local community initiatives. They seek to properly prepare volunteers by setting appropriate expectations and providing cultural education before they even reach their country of interest. Also, they seek to maintain a steady and continuous flow of volunteers. The volunteers themselves become the sustainable resource. The services they provide are on-going. They will send another volunteer to pick up the work they have already begun.

    Furthermore, I spoke with the Program Manager for South Africa and he let me know that someone wrote an article about the very same thing specifically in South Africa. The in-country director in South Africa met with the author and she confirmed that the article wasn’t actually directed at CCS. The author of the article actually felt the way CCS performed their programs was more to lend a hand to already sustainable organizations, so they would avoid creating the types of damaging relationships you hear about in other volunteer programs. The partner organizations CCS works with have staff that are continuously there to provide for the children they work with. CCS provides volunteer help to make sure those organizations and staff can keep up and provide the necessary care the children need in the long term.

  • Terri Wingham • February 16, 2011

    Thanks Lesly,
    I appreciate your support and your donation! I promise that I will write the whole time I’m away. Thanks again.
    Terri

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  • Marie Ennis-O'Connor • February 18, 2011

    Terri, this is a wonderful life-affirming adventure you are taking on and I salute you for it (from the comfort and safety of my armchair!). I don’t possess your adventurous and courageous spirit, but I will happily cheer you on from the sidelines and contribute a few dollars to your cause along the way. In the last line, your quotation reminds me of a poem which I dedicate to you:
    http://beyondbreastcancer.wordpress.com/2010/10/15/poetry-friday-46/

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